Don Rickles, the legendary comedian known for his sharp tongue and fearless humor, had a complicated relationship with one of Hollywood’s biggest stars: Denzel Washington. While Rickles was adored for his ability to make audiences laugh, Washington’s stoic demeanor left the comic feeling challenged in a way few others did.
Born Donald J. Rickles on May 8, 1926, in Queens, New York, Rickles grew up in a Jewish family that instilled in him a strong work ethic. His father, Max, was an insurance agent, and his mother recognized her son’s comedic potential early on.
Initially drawn to dramatic acting, Rickles soon discovered that his true talent lay in stand-up comedy, where his quick wit and observational humor could shine.
After serving in the U. S. Navy during World War II, Rickles returned to the stage, where he began performing in nightclubs.
It was during this time that he stumbled upon the art of insult comedy, a genre he would come to define. His fearless approach to roasting anyone in the audience, regardless of their status, earned him the affectionate title of “Mr. Warmth.”
Unlike many comedians, Rickles’ jabs were never malicious; instead, they were delivered with a warmth that made everyone feel included in the joke.
A pivotal moment in Rickles’ career occurred when the legendary Frank Sinatra attended one of his shows in Miami. Instead of bowing to the superstar, Rickles boldly insulted him, joking about his influence in the industry. To Rickles’ surprise, Sinatra embraced the humor, becoming one of his staunchest supporters and helping to elevate Rickles’ status in Hollywood.
Rickles didn’t just shine in stand-up; he also showcased his versatility as an actor in films like “Run Silent, Run Deep” and “Kelly’s Heroes.” His appearances on variety shows, particularly “The Tonight Show with Johnny Carson,” became iconic, with his quick-witted insults becoming a staple of the program. In the 1970s, he starred in his own sitcom, “CPO Sharkey,” which highlighted both his comedic chops and his ability to play a more serious role.
Family was a cornerstone of Rickles’ life. He took immense pride in his children, Mindy and Larry. Mindy pursued acting, while Larry worked behind the scenes in entertainment.
Tragically, Larry passed away in 2011, a loss that deeply affected Rickles and reminded him of life’s fragility.
As Rickles aged, he often reflected on his legacy, especially through the eyes of his grandchildren, Ethan and Harrison. While many adults revered him for his comedic genius, his grandkids were most impressed by his role as Mr. Potato Head in the “Toy Story” films.
This generational gap brought Rickles joy, as he humorously acknowledged that his career was perhaps overshadowed by a talking plastic toy.
Rickles’ marriage to Barbara was another significant aspect of his life. Their bond lasted over five decades, marked by unwavering loyalty and humor. Barbara stood by Rickles through thick and thin, providing a solid foundation in the often tumultuous world of entertainment.
Sadly, she passed away from non-Hodgkin lymphoma on March 14, 2021, exactly 56 years after their wedding, leaving Rickles to navigate life without her.
Despite his ability to charm and entertain, Rickles had one notable exception: Denzel Washington. The two shared a complicated dynamic, as Washington’s stoic nature left Rickles feeling frustrated. Unlike other stars who laughed along with his jokes, Washington remained unfazed, which Rickles found almost impossible to crack.
This tension highlighted the unique challenges Rickles faced, even in his illustrious career.
Don Rickles passed away on April 6, 2017, at the age of 90, leaving behind a legacy that transformed the landscape of comedy. His sharp wit and fearless humor continue to inspire countless comedians today. Even in his later years, Rickles remained active, reminding audiences of the power of laughter and connection.
As we remember this iconic figure, one question lingers: how will future generations continue to honor the legacy of a man who mastered the art of humor in such a unique way?
